To Every Woman, Lady and Girl Who has ever been Abused or Molested. ( SAY NO TO RAPE) #saynotorape

Again I Personally express my Empathy to every Woman, Lady, Girl or Child who has ever had to endure the agony of Rape, Molestation, and Abuse, along with the devastation and Depression that comes with it.

And I'm thankful to God that there is a silver lining to all these emotionally draining occurrence, in that many women are bold and courageous enough to come out and expose even talk about the degradation they faced in the hands of these hoodlums.

In the wake of this gut wrenching event ( KILLED UNIBEN STUDENT), I got talking with a friend and she shared an agonizing story of when she was at the University and her younger sister came to visit. you know the old school days 4 to 5 girls being in a single room, it was fun and the girls were happy that a room mate's younger sister came visiting.

The older girls were happy to show the younger girl around and were introducing her to school life in preparation for when she will also gain admission, the girl was only 16 years old as she just finished her school leaving certificate exams and waiting for the results.

Then came that fateful night when a Robber came to their room as they were staying off campus. All the girls were asleep when suddenly there was a break to their door, the door was not a well hitched door obviously because it got broken with a forceful push.

They all scrambled awake to know what was going on but already the bad guy was already in their room the security around that area was not that tight, and neighbors could not come out because everyone was afraid for his/her life as no one was sure about the numbers of the attackers or how armed they were.

The guy gained entrance and the girls were scared to death for their lives. Although the only weapon he held was a chisel but because it was so sudden, and all so unexpected they could not think rationally that they could actually overpower him. He took away their food stuffs, provisions and money but he also took something priceless. 

The guy after raiding them of all their belongings looked at all of them and picked the young girl and Raped her. The Older sister attempted to attack the guy. Because she thought since the guy was distracted they could probably launched an attack on him. But this was only her thoughts and not the thoughts of the other girls. As the other girls saw that the guy was distracted trying to manhandle the young girl they took to their heels and ran for their lives as the door was still wide opened from the break in. The older sister was left alone but eventually she instinctively ran as well and left her younger sister in the hands of the Rapist. She was afraid she might not be able to handle the man all by herself.

She said and I quote " That was the most regrettable decision and action of my Life"

she asked herself over and over why she didn't wait to rescue her sister? She has been living with that guilt all her life.

I encourage anyone who has faced this kind of terror, see yourself through the eyes of God. Because when He looks at you all He sees is a beautiful young girl whom He loves so much. He does not see your scars, He loves you scars and all.

You might have been asking why God allowed these to happen? the truth is, I do not know, but one thing I know is, you can rise above it, you are a Survivor, Strong, Priceless, Beautiful, Courageous and Indefatigable, and Yes you are Special!!

And to the Rapist  God is Watching you through 3D Lens and Remember Karma is a Bitch!!!!

I would like to view your comments in the comments section. Your opinion matter especially on the action of the older sister.

Thanks for reading.

UNIBEN Undergraduate violated and Killed inside a church in Benin City

A  year 1 microbiology student of Uniben suffered an attack while reading in one of the RCCG Churches in Edo State

The unfortunate incident occurred a few days back. According to witness around the area, the security of the church went to collect the key from the church key- keeper on that fateful day, when he entered the church to discover the almost lifeless body of Vera Uwaila Omozuwa in a pool of her own blood, the terrified man ran out and went back to the key keeper to narrate what he saw in the church as he could not even touch the bleeding victim. 

On getting back to the church the security and the key keeper tried to help the poor lady and observed she is still breathing that was when she weakly informed them that she was raped and smashed on the head with a fire extinguisher

she was rushed to the intensive care unit but she lost the battle for her life to the cold hands of death how tragic!!.

 The deceased friends and family  have been requesting that her death be brought to justice. And
a lot of people have taken to twitter to express sympathy and demand justice for the deceased.

#JusticeforUwa.

I look forward to a country where one can sleep with two eyes closed
I look forward to a country where one send children out without fear of harm.
let's stop Rape
let's stop Violence.

COMMON SIGNS OF INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ( HOW MANY OF THESE TRAITS DO YOU HAVE)

I was at my Parents' recently fortunately all my siblings were there to visit as well. my parents house have that kind of effect on all, and not only their children.We always want to just come to their house and hangout because the atmosphere in that house is enthralling. And well i have no apologies whatsoever for visiting them as often as i do.

Anyways, we got talking and started people analysis as regards achievements and  journey to success. I got home and did a mental review  of everything said, couple with a few research of my own, then i discovered that Smart people have somethings in common.

 

1.  Love to Read: Give them a good book and you become their ally.
2. Often listen more than they speak: They Soak information to draw an objective conclusion
3.  Deep Thinkers: They ruminate digest and analyse information before presenting a fact
4. Good questioner
5. Don't mind being wrong: they admit when wrong, then go back to make more findings.
6. Not afraid to stand alone: can stand alone on his opinion without a feeling of intimidation.
7. Good observer: They observe and learn.

If you have more ideas feel free to share. 

WHO ARE THE TOP 3 BIG BROTHER NAIJA FEMALE TO GRACE YOUR SCREEN????

Beautiful Ladies and gentle men my guesses are as great as yours

REGINA DANIELS EXPECTING HER BUNDLE OF JOY

 Talk about pregnancy glow that's the description of the beautiful actress Regina Daniels as she expects her cutie. we say a prayer of safe delivery in Jesus mighty name.

Pregnancy suits her so beautifully.

CONGRATS TO DAVIDO (OBO) ON HIS NEWLY ACQUIRED ASSET

Davido took to his Instagram page to disclose the tour he gave his friends of his new Mansion.
The house located on the Banana island was said to be one of a kind. hopefully this will signal the nuptials date announcement we all have been waiting for,  enough of this guessing game already.😀😀😀

RACISM

GEORGE FLOYD (HEART BREAKING) 💔💔💔💔

Black or White we have the same color of Blood

So i eventually summoned the courage to watch the heart wrenching video of George Floyd, and i was almost reaching out into my phone screen to slap and blow and do whatever it takes to pull up the supposed law enforcement agent off the poor Man as he snuffed life out of him. really it is inhumane and Barbaric and ohhh!!! so disturbing.

Racism is a life long Enemy combating mankind, it is a monster we lend power to invade our world. I read a post on a twitter page and i quote 'My husband goes out everyday and i fear for his Life' what a world? one cannot even guarantee the safety in a land with constitution.

we might not have a voice or should i say our voice might not be loud enough but in our own little way lets keep shouting and do all we can to rid our world of this uninvited monster.

i will like to know your opinion

#saynotoracism

#icantbreathe